Comments on: Confessions… https://www.themarionfsblog.com/confessions/ Sharing a personal adventure together Fri, 25 Nov 2016 08:38:56 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 By: Marion Fuller-Sessions https://www.themarionfsblog.com/confessions/#comment-314 Fri, 25 Nov 2016 08:38:56 +0000 http://www.themarionfsblog.com/?p=14613#comment-314 Gill, I replied yesterday, but it has disappeared into the ether. You got off much more lightly, and tactfully, than I did. Your priest ‘absolved’ you, whereas I felt I was considered past redemption; it’s a long time ago but I don’t remember any attempt to understand let alone absolve.
On a slightly more light-hearted theme, I have a similar graveyard confession! When we lived in Lusaka in the late 1940s, my sister and I were very friendly with a family who lived opposite a cemetery. It always looked so colourful with lots of flowers and bright ribbons, and one afternoon we thought we might play there, and without any thought of guilt took some apparently abandoned hair ribbons. We all wore plaits in those days and liked the thought of more colourful bows than usual.
Alas, our joy was short lived. Our friends’ mother came over to collect us, in horror at what we had been doing. Alarm bells had rung in her mind when a friend had called in to see her, reporting emotionally that she had just seen such a touching sight: a young family obviously tending their mother’s grave…
Knowing we had no understanding of what we had been doing she explained, and reprimanded, but could hardly hide her amusement. And of course we had to return our hair ribbons.

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By: Gillian Radcliffe https://www.themarionfsblog.com/confessions/#comment-313 Wed, 23 Nov 2016 22:02:28 +0000 http://www.themarionfsblog.com/?p=14613#comment-313 This reminds me of when I was about six and had to walk every day, from school through the churchyard to my grandmother’s house for my tea. On the way I passed a grave covered with small porcelain cherubs and posies of roses, exquisitely moulded. It was the beginning of my love of art, and I longed to own one of these tiny sculptures which were covered with protective wire netting. One day, I saw the netting had been torn apart and that someone had broken off some of the flowers. The temptation was too great: I reached for an angel and put her in my pocket and later hid her, wrapped in lavatory paper, at the back of my toy cupboard. Burdened by my secret, my delight soon turned to guilt.

Many years later, having been brought up in a non religious household, and in the first flush of my Anglo Catholic phase, I was sent to confession. I racked my brains to think of things to say, no doubt unable to see my own misdemeanors for the plank in my eye. I remembered my mother’s anger when I called her a witch; and then it resurfaced, the memory of my theft and the desecration of a grave, and my face felt hot, as if it had happened yesterday. Fortunately, the priest was a lot more benign than Marion’s headmistress. He was gentle, reassuring and I think rather amused, so my six year old self, hidden inside a grown woman, was absolved and set free!

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